I'm Katherine.
Queer. 24. Utah.
Beautifully grotesque things.
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 THE DEEP BLUE SEA (2011) - [03/??]

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finished! buttercup patch for the back of my ‘fight like a girl’ vest uwu

idk how well you can tell, butt all of the gree bits are sparkly! :D

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Margaret Cho, “Yes Means Yes” (via americanhighwayflower)

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I am surprised by how much sex I have had in my life that I didn’t want to have. Not exactly what’s considered “real” rape, or “date” rape, although it is a kind of rape of the spirit - a dishonest portrayal or distortion of my own desire in order to appease another person.
I said yes because I felt it was too much trouble to say no. I said yes because I didn’t want to have to defend my “no,” qualify it, justify it - deserve it. I said yes because I thought I was so ugly and fat that I should just take sex every time it was offered, because who knew when it would be offered again. I said yes to partners I never wanted in the first place, because to say no at any point after saying yes for so long would make our entire relationship a lie, so I had to keep saying yes in order to keep the “no” I felt a secret. That is such a messed-up way to live, such an awful way to love.
So these days, I say yes only when I mean yes. It does require some vigilance on my part to make sure I don’t just go on sexual automatic pilot and let people do whatever. It forces me to be really honest with myself and others. It makes me remember that loving myself is also about protecting myself and defending my own borders. I say yes to me.

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` Never expect someone to respect your feelings because you respect theirs. Never expect someone not to hurt you because you would never hurt them. Thats like sitting in a room full of lions and expecting them not to eat you because you don’t eat lion. .
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